What to Do With Disappointments
By Joy Wie-Addo
When life frowns at you, you can sit back and smile back.
Ever hear of the Scripture that tells us not to reply in anger to an angry man?
Proverbs 15:1 “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up
anger.” It only wells up the anger to respond in anger; but a smile cools down
the anger. Such is life the moment you
smile; the devil gets the message that you are on top, and you know what you
are about. Your smile also gives you the confidence that all is well. To those
around you, it tells them you know what you are about. Many disappointments
come our way in our day to day activities. Some disappointments open doors for
us to laugh, some dampens our spirit. But the truth is, even a bad
disappointment can have a good end. Because even in nothing, there is
something. And so we say and agree with the Scripture that says that everything
works together for them that love the Lord. (Romans 8:28 “And we know that in
all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called
according to his purpose.”)
When we don’t give up, it gives God the opportunity to have
his way with us. And when we make an attempt to get up when we fall, we get to
experience God extending a hand to help us up, and not just help us up, but put
us in a place where we can look down to see how deep we fell, and how high we
are now. Then we have the opportunity to see those also climbing up, and help
them up.